Let’s say you have met a nice guy that you are interested in and you want to know if he is also interested in you. A great way to find out without revealing your feelings about him is to watch his body. His body language I mean. By doing so, you can tell almost immediately if he is into you. This is a powerful tool, especially if he sends you mixed signals- his body doesn’t lie! Here are some body language signs that will tell you if he is interested in you.
Leaning towards you
This is actually one of the best ways for knowing if a guy is interested during a date or a conversation. If he leans towards you it’s a sign of closeness and affection by him.
He looks you in the eyes
Prolonged eye contact is a crucial key to knowing if a man is interested. When a man is looking in your eyes while you are talking to him it’s a sign of attraction. If a guy is really interested, that eye contact can easily become staring.
He smiles a lot
If he is smiling while he is talking to you or when he sees you, it’s a good sign of attraction. If he is smiling while looking at you (or even better- while looking in your eyes) he is definitely into you.
Subtle touching is a great way for knowing if a man is interested. If he touches you gently on your shoulder or pushing you gently while telling you a joke or touches your hair in the first couple of dates, it’s a sign of attraction and affection. This is a way for a man to show affection while not being too aggressive.
He dresses nicely
If you are noticing that a guy is starting to dress nicely when he is around you or fixing his hair, for example, it means that he is trying to look attractive and appealing to you.
A man who is interested will often show a solid posture. He will push his chest out, he will stand tall, with shoulders up and tummy in. this is often made at the subconscious level and it is being done in order to show a manly figure.
Spreading his Legs
This is also happening in his subconscious level when he sits in front of you or next to you. It’s a part of the manly posture he is trying to present. It is also an indication of openness.
Mirroring behaviour is when a person copies or mimics another person behaviour. When a man is interested in a woman he will subconsciously mimic her body language. If you are on a date, for example, try to touch your hair or lean to one side or play with something on the table. If he also starts doing the same thing, he is interested.
Manly gestures like handing you his coat on a cold day, opening the door for you, protective behaviour, are all good signs of attraction.
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The Bottom Line
Body language is a great way for knowing if a man is attracted to you. Lots of the signs that was mentioned above are being done at the subconscious level and often without being aware of that. This is the reason that watching his body language can tell you the truth about his intentions. If you are seeing two or three of this signs, he is definitely interested. If he displays all of the above, feel yourself, lucky girl- he is got a crush on you!